Showing posts with label Life As A Mummy. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Life As A Mummy. Show all posts
Saturday, October 3, 2015
Featured In Huffington's Post!
I'm glad to be featured in one of Huffington Post's article on my quote on what matters to me as a parent.
Click below to read my quote ;)
Huffington Post: Mothers From Around The Globe Tells Us What Is Most Important To Them
It's just a small mention but I'm honoured just the same.
Friday, January 24, 2014
This Is What Happens When You Have Kids
If you see my facebook page follower, or even my blog reader, you probably would have thought I make parenting looks so easy and fun.
Ok, these are some of the things we do/get behind the scenes of a family of 4.
I wonder how crazy it will get when we grow to a family of 5. lol.
Have a great day!
Gah, this means you are absolutely wrong. That is just one teeny part of our role as parents.
There is another 3/4 part of it.
The part about the truth on what happens behind the scene:
- I try to wear diapers / pants for a toddler who keeps running away.
- I repeat the same thing again and again, ranging from 'time to take a bath' and 'pls open your mouth' and 'pls come here'
- I am like a clown every time I wipe poo off my toddler's buttocks, so that he could concentrate on my funny faces and won't wriggle away.
- I make funny faces behind the camera to make my kids smile.
- I threaten my kids all the time like 'I'm going to count to three. 1, 2....' and he usually comes before then or whack...
- I'm just going for a pee....pls don't cry like I'm leaving home.
- Pack my toddler into the toilet with some toys while I shit. Yes, doesn't matter he smells the shit and the air's probably germy. As long as he doesn't scream the house down which my shit will automatically disappear.
- I even have to entertain and make funny faces to my kid while I shower. (our shower door's transparent!)
- I breastfeed my toddler while I type with my left hands sometimes, and he sometimes kick on my laptop too.
Ok, these are some of the things we do/get behind the scenes of a family of 4.
I wonder how crazy it will get when we grow to a family of 5. lol.
Have a great day!
Sunday, November 24, 2013
Stressful Times
It was a really crazy month.
Both my kids fell sick. Not just the normal flu and cough, but a full-blown-super-high-fever-kinda sick!
It was enough to make me go crazy.
It all started with Khye.
He was having mild fever for about 2 days and then it went off after taking PCM. And after a few more days, the fever came back, and this time with a vengeance.
1 Nov 2013
Khye had high fever for 1 week to be exact.
After having high fever until day 4, I took him to see his paed. The doctor was a little concern because it has been four days of high fever. His temperature read 39.1 dC although he had just taken PCM 2 hours before.
So his paed asked to do a blood test and also a urine test to check on Dengue Fever and the rest.
So Khye was screaming murder in the lab room, my poor baby.
Dengue test came back negative, and the doc said it should be just a viral fever and it would pass. But his temperature continued to soar. At home it was so difficult because my Khye hates taking meds orally.
He would scream and would not swallow. And as the meds trickle down his throat, he would cough and then he would try to vomit it out. Yes, that's my Khye. Sigh.
So many a time, he ended up vomitting out the meds, and then we would have to feed him again. And so another round of battle with Khye and meds.
And even then, I still needed to sponge him down as his fever would always be above 39 dC, and sometimes even above 39.5 dC which is very worrying.
And at night, those were sleepless nights for me as I kept waking up every half an hour to check on his temperature. As you know, during night time, our body temperature rises a little more so I was worried that it would get too high.
I would be ok if Khye was still all active and such. But to tell the truth, he was not. He was being very lethargic and clingy and refused to play by himself on the floor. He only wanted to be carried all the time. He was not being his usual cheerful self.
There were times when he was ok when the fever went down for a few hours. He was smiling happily.
27 October 2013
But those hours were short-lived. Once the temperature shot up again, it was all grumpy and moody face again. :(
26 Oct 2013
We went back to the doctor on Day 6 as fever was still there, and this time the doctor got more worried and he asked for a second round of blood test. I had no choice but to agree. Results came back negative again and I got very worried because the doc didn't even know what caused the high fever.
On Day 7, Khye was still having fever and I got so stressed up I cried. I cried because I was so worried about my baby. Worried because I have not encountered such high fever for so long. And I cried also because I was so stressed up.
And
suddenly, miraculously, the fever was gone on the night of Day 7. Just
like that. After having high fever every day for the past 1 week, it was
all gone after Day 7. Phew.
14 Nov 2013
And then about 2 weeks later it was Shern's turn.
Initially, it was just a low-grade fever for a night. And then he had some discharge on his right eye (which I think was passed to him by my aunt who had conjunctivities). So we took him to the doc. He was prescribed eye drops and we also noticed he had a warmer than usual body temp (about 37.5 dC) but no fever yet.
However, he got worse at night and his temperature soared until 39.5 dC but after PCM it came down. So we brought him back to see his paed. His temp was still 39.1 dC even after PCM just an hour ago. We went home with a bottle of ibuprofen, just in case.
14 Nov 2013
As I suspected, doc asked him to be admitted as his fever is really high. I agreed because his fever was quite uncontrollable. So high even after meds.
This was Shern standing on the height chart, waiting to be admitted.
By the way, we waited 2 hours for us before we were admitted to a single room in GMC.
15 Nov 2013
Shern was quite brave and only bawled for a while when his paed himself poked his hand and inserted a cannula on his left hand. And he also took some blood to check for Dengue, Influenza A&B, etc.
This is Shern giving us a wide smile when his fever got under control.
Tests came back negative on Dengue and Influeza. White blood count went up and doc suspected bacteria infection. So he was put on antibiotics. It was the first time ever Shern was on antibiotics.
Shern had it really bad this time. His fever shot up until very high, it was mostly above 39 dC even after meds. And PCM didn't seem to be able to work at all, he needed ibuprofen. And even then it was still high. I had to keep sponging him to bring the temperature down. It even went up to 41 dC once and gave me quite a scare.
Night time was worse, I had to check his temperature every 1/2 hourly. And on the 1st and 2nd night at the hospital, his fever couldn't come down even after 2 hours after ibuprofen. It was still above 39.5 dC. Shern was already shivering but he was asked him to lie down on a cold pad (hoping to bring the fever down) and I was sponging him non-stop. It was difficult to keep sponging him as he was cold and sleepy and cranky. Who wasn't when the fever goes until so high!
His paed even came to see him at 3am in the middle of the night, checking for other symptoms such as Kawasaki disease, etc. He showed no such symptoms though. But it was good of the paed to come to check on him.
Look at the amount of PCM and ibuprofen he took on the days in the hospital. And this list was not even completed yet.
Some of the times, when his fever came down (usually only about 2 hours before it spiked up again), he was all smiley and happy like these.
Enjoying bread dipped in creamy soup on the first day in the hospital. After that his appetite went downhill and he ate very little. :(
But most of the times, he was like these, with either a cool hanky or a Kool Fever on top of his forehead, for I kept on sponging him down.
And by the 3rd day, Shern was put on drip because his fever got too high and used up a lot of water in his body. Although Shern drank a lot of water initially, I realized that he seldom went to the toilet. And when he did, his urine was very yellow and his lips cracked. So his paed decided to put him on drip.
It was such a pity seeing him confined to a machine with just a short wire length of freedom, but we had no choice. He was sad not being able to run as freely. But the drip was for his good. And slowly his urine was less yellow.
Doc did a blood test for Mycoplasma bacteria and it came back positive, and so Shern was put on another antibiotic for that. Doc hoped that would be the cause of the fever, and not multiple bacteria infections. We would just needed to wait and see for the antibiotics to take its course, and to wean off the fever.
It was actually not funny then. I was all stressed up because I needed to be at two places at the same time. Both my kids needed me then. But then I needed to prioritize and so I stayed with Shern. And then hubby or dad would bring Khye to the hospital downstairs and I would let him latch for 1/2 hr twice a day. I bathed and washed and scrubbed my hands vigorously before carrying Khye, hoping that whatever germs won't be passed to my baby.
The other times I would just express and throw away. I needed to breastfeed Khye so that he would not be dehydrated and he gets his liquid intake. The last thing I needed was for Khye to also fall sick.
Anyway, back to Shern. We killed time in the hospital doodling on white board, and also with home made activity sheets. It was really boring times in the hospital.
We dared not venture out from our hospital room too often, because I was afraid of other illnesses (heard our next door rooms patients had Dengue, H1N1, etc...sounded scary!) because Shern's immunity system was low then and might be easily infected.
So most of the time, he would just stare outside our hospital room window, staring longingly at the outside world and spotting playgrounds and cars and beach, etc.
But once a while,we would just walk near the lifts where there was a big panel of windows showing a marvelous view.
He had a new friend to accompany him in the hospital from a visitor, our neighbour. Thanks Aunty Su Li.
And after that on Day 6, he got better. Fever for only twice (one low grade fever, and another time high fever) the whole day and then we got hopeful.
That night he had no more fever and so doc gave us the green light to be discharged. Yay!
7 days in the hospital and we were going home!
This is Shern in his carseat in the car on the ride home. He konked out in the car too. But it was alright. We were going home!
So this sums out the stressful times on how both my kids had high fever for a week each!
Needed to document this down as this is part of life, and part of us growing stronger as a family.
And now we are back to our home sweet home. And Khye is so happy to see his mummy 24 hours a day again! lol.
Both my kids fell sick. Not just the normal flu and cough, but a full-blown-super-high-fever-kinda sick!
It was enough to make me go crazy.
It all started with Khye.
He was having mild fever for about 2 days and then it went off after taking PCM. And after a few more days, the fever came back, and this time with a vengeance.
1 Nov 2013
Khye had high fever for 1 week to be exact.
After having high fever until day 4, I took him to see his paed. The doctor was a little concern because it has been four days of high fever. His temperature read 39.1 dC although he had just taken PCM 2 hours before.
So his paed asked to do a blood test and also a urine test to check on Dengue Fever and the rest.
So Khye was screaming murder in the lab room, my poor baby.
Dengue test came back negative, and the doc said it should be just a viral fever and it would pass. But his temperature continued to soar. At home it was so difficult because my Khye hates taking meds orally.
He would scream and would not swallow. And as the meds trickle down his throat, he would cough and then he would try to vomit it out. Yes, that's my Khye. Sigh.
So many a time, he ended up vomitting out the meds, and then we would have to feed him again. And so another round of battle with Khye and meds.
And even then, I still needed to sponge him down as his fever would always be above 39 dC, and sometimes even above 39.5 dC which is very worrying.
And at night, those were sleepless nights for me as I kept waking up every half an hour to check on his temperature. As you know, during night time, our body temperature rises a little more so I was worried that it would get too high.
I would be ok if Khye was still all active and such. But to tell the truth, he was not. He was being very lethargic and clingy and refused to play by himself on the floor. He only wanted to be carried all the time. He was not being his usual cheerful self.
There were times when he was ok when the fever went down for a few hours. He was smiling happily.
27 October 2013
But those hours were short-lived. Once the temperature shot up again, it was all grumpy and moody face again. :(
26 Oct 2013
We went back to the doctor on Day 6 as fever was still there, and this time the doctor got more worried and he asked for a second round of blood test. I had no choice but to agree. Results came back negative again and I got very worried because the doc didn't even know what caused the high fever.
On Day 7, Khye was still having fever and I got so stressed up I cried. I cried because I was so worried about my baby. Worried because I have not encountered such high fever for so long. And I cried also because I was so stressed up.
Initially, it was just a low-grade fever for a night. And then he had some discharge on his right eye (which I think was passed to him by my aunt who had conjunctivities). So we took him to the doc. He was prescribed eye drops and we also noticed he had a warmer than usual body temp (about 37.5 dC) but no fever yet.
However, he got worse at night and his temperature soared until 39.5 dC but after PCM it came down. So we brought him back to see his paed. His temp was still 39.1 dC even after PCM just an hour ago. We went home with a bottle of ibuprofen, just in case.
But afternoon came and he got worse. His temperature was still 39.6 dC even after ibuprofen 1 hour ago. And it was not even night time yet. And Shern was shivering there and feeling bad.
So I knew I needed to bring him back to see the doc again.As I suspected, doc asked him to be admitted as his fever is really high. I agreed because his fever was quite uncontrollable. So high even after meds.
This was Shern standing on the height chart, waiting to be admitted.
By the way, we waited 2 hours for us before we were admitted to a single room in GMC.
Shern was quite brave and only bawled for a while when his paed himself poked his hand and inserted a cannula on his left hand. And he also took some blood to check for Dengue, Influenza A&B, etc.
This is Shern giving us a wide smile when his fever got under control.
Tests came back negative on Dengue and Influeza. White blood count went up and doc suspected bacteria infection. So he was put on antibiotics. It was the first time ever Shern was on antibiotics.
Shern had it really bad this time. His fever shot up until very high, it was mostly above 39 dC even after meds. And PCM didn't seem to be able to work at all, he needed ibuprofen. And even then it was still high. I had to keep sponging him to bring the temperature down. It even went up to 41 dC once and gave me quite a scare.
Night time was worse, I had to check his temperature every 1/2 hourly. And on the 1st and 2nd night at the hospital, his fever couldn't come down even after 2 hours after ibuprofen. It was still above 39.5 dC. Shern was already shivering but he was asked him to lie down on a cold pad (hoping to bring the fever down) and I was sponging him non-stop. It was difficult to keep sponging him as he was cold and sleepy and cranky. Who wasn't when the fever goes until so high!
His paed even came to see him at 3am in the middle of the night, checking for other symptoms such as Kawasaki disease, etc. He showed no such symptoms though. But it was good of the paed to come to check on him.
Look at the amount of PCM and ibuprofen he took on the days in the hospital. And this list was not even completed yet.
Some of the times, when his fever came down (usually only about 2 hours before it spiked up again), he was all smiley and happy like these.
Enjoying bread dipped in creamy soup on the first day in the hospital. After that his appetite went downhill and he ate very little. :(
We bought him a cheapo toy truck from the store downstairs. It was such a poor quality toy, very flimsy and I think totally not worth the RM20 we paid for it. But there was not much choice when we're cooped up in the hospital.
Good thing is he was happy with it.
Good thing is he was happy with it.
And by the 3rd day, Shern was put on drip because his fever got too high and used up a lot of water in his body. Although Shern drank a lot of water initially, I realized that he seldom went to the toilet. And when he did, his urine was very yellow and his lips cracked. So his paed decided to put him on drip.
It was such a pity seeing him confined to a machine with just a short wire length of freedom, but we had no choice. He was sad not being able to run as freely. But the drip was for his good. And slowly his urine was less yellow.
Doc did a blood test for Mycoplasma bacteria and it came back positive, and so Shern was put on another antibiotic for that. Doc hoped that would be the cause of the fever, and not multiple bacteria infections. We would just needed to wait and see for the antibiotics to take its course, and to wean off the fever.
It was difficult for me too as I took care of him in the hospital mostly (Pho-pho tried one night to relieve me, nut Shern bullied Pho-pho and wouldn't cooperate to take meds, etc), so it was mostly me.
I was in a difficult position because Shern needed me in the hospital, and Khye too needed me (need my breasts actually lol). Khye can now eat some solids, but he wouldn't drink much water. He wants nen-nen only and not milk in the bottle, but fresh from the source, lol. The other times I would just express and throw away. I needed to breastfeed Khye so that he would not be dehydrated and he gets his liquid intake. The last thing I needed was for Khye to also fall sick.
So I was also very tired and with lack of sleep and very stressful. And guess what, that led me to have yeast infection at the end of the hospital ordeal. Sigh.
Anyway, back to Shern. We killed time in the hospital doodling on white board, and also with home made activity sheets. It was really boring times in the hospital.
We dared not venture out from our hospital room too often, because I was afraid of other illnesses (heard our next door rooms patients had Dengue, H1N1, etc...sounded scary!) because Shern's immunity system was low then and might be easily infected.
So most of the time, he would just stare outside our hospital room window, staring longingly at the outside world and spotting playgrounds and cars and beach, etc.
But once a while,we would just walk near the lifts where there was a big panel of windows showing a marvelous view.
He had a new friend to accompany him in the hospital from a visitor, our neighbour. Thanks Aunty Su Li.
And after that on Day 6, he got better. Fever for only twice (one low grade fever, and another time high fever) the whole day and then we got hopeful.
That night he had no more fever and so doc gave us the green light to be discharged. Yay!
7 days in the hospital and we were going home!
This is Shern in his carseat in the car on the ride home. He konked out in the car too. But it was alright. We were going home!
So this sums out the stressful times on how both my kids had high fever for a week each!
Needed to document this down as this is part of life, and part of us growing stronger as a family.
And now we are back to our home sweet home. And Khye is so happy to see his mummy 24 hours a day again! lol.
And thank you all for your prayers.
Thursday, December 13, 2012
Yiu-Khye - Week 10
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| Week 10 - 16 November 2012 |
The above photo was taken during our outing to Gurney Plaza, Penang.
Vision
I noticed he now can see much clearer and much further.
See him looking at me although I was standing up above him. Khye lifted his head up and watched me with his eyes, following me wherever I move.
16 November 2012
Drooling
Just like the men in the family, he drools when he sleeps. Haha.
Actually Khye drools when he is awake too, since he started putting his fingers into his mouth.
Sleeping
Khye as usual sleeps like an angel most of the time. He can sleep with background noises too such as tv sounds, or chatting sounds. No problem. Just no sudden loud sound which might startle him.
Overall, he sleeps easily. He especially loves it when put into the bouncer, which he sleeps in at Pho-pho's place.
22 November 2012
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| 18 November 2012 |
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| 16 November 2012 |
He was still in dreamland that we hadn't the heart to carry him out from the seat in case we stirred him up, so we used it as a carrier (something we rarely do, because it is very heavy!). I blogged about it here.
At night though, he sleeps in his baby cot.
This is his bedtime bear.
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| 17 November 2012 |
Getting Longer
Khye is getting longer. Khye is now longer than his changing mat. It will soon be time when he could no longer fit in there!
Awake Time
Khye is having more awake time, being awake for more than 3-4 hours at a stretch.
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| 22 November 2012 |
Siblings
Another photo with Shern gege. Shern being cheeky as usual. ;)
When Khye was younger, Kong-kong did not dare to carry him, coz he said he is too 'soft' as he still had no head control. Now that Khye is 10 weeks old, he has sorta toughen up and has a little better head control, so Khye was carried by Kong-kong for the first time! Yay!
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| 22 November 2012 |
Scrapped my favourite photo of Khye & me, taken when Khye was 12 days old. Lovin' it. :)
Sunday, November 18, 2012
My First Baby
These photos of me and my boy was before I was even pregnant with Khye.
No amount of gold can compare, to the love and bonding Shern and I share....I love you baby.
No amount of gold can compare, to the love and bonding Shern and I share....I love you baby.
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| 30 December 2011 - Sushi Zenmai, Precinct 10 |
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