Tuesday, August 24, 2010

Marriage Is A Love Commitment

Loving someone is not easy. There are many sacrifices to make when it comes to love. You choose to make those sacrifices. Your heart aches. Tears flow. Time seems to crawl by when he is not around. But yet, there is this laughter. Giddiness in the head when he holds your hand. And nothing feels better than his arms around you.
Yes, it comes in a package. Love comes with tears and laughter.

People has their own understanding about true love. For me, love comes with responsibility and commitment. I do not believe in blinded love. I do not believe in one-sided love. However, I believe in eternal love.

I don't believe that people just fall in and out of love. Yes it happens, but is a gradual process. And it is the actions of both parties which determine it.

Marriage is a love commitment. The moment you say 'I do' is the moment which both parties have the responsibility to go through 'thick and think', 'in sickness or in health'. Alas, too many people forget this 'responsibility'. When you cheat on your partners, it means you are irresponsible.

I am lucky enough to marry my best friend. We dated for 5 years before we tied the knot. We have been married for almost 4 years. We are still in love as ever.
Yes, it is true that he is starting to grow wider in his tummy now. And I am no longer the 19 yo slim girl, but we will continue to hold hands 'til the end of days. We will continue to commit our love to each other.


Kate said...

congrats on your relationship & marriage milestone! undeniably, your love and peter's is evident even to the blind.

tanshuyin said...

hie thanks karen.
i'm thankful and grateful for the love peter has showered on me ;)